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Calm Lake

Healing Hearts, Rebuilding Lives: Therapeutic Counselling with an interest in Overcoming Pet Loss, Grief, Trauma and Dental Trauma.

You were born to thrive! 

Supporting adults through Pet Loss, Life Transitions, Emotional Trauma, Stress, and Emotional Support for the Unique Challenges of Canine Companions.
"I am looking forward learning about your challenges, your life journey, your hopes and dreams"

HI! I am Monique Verhoef.

 

I'm a registered master therapeutic counsellor specializing in pet loss, grief, and trauma.

 

My passion is helping people like you who feel misunderstood or hide your struggles from society.

Losing a pet, something so close to your heart, can be incredibly difficult to talk about. It's like a secret struggle, right? That grief can sometimes amplify other underlying traumatic experiences—work-related bullying, major life changes, or deeply rooted pain from the past.

I also help individuals overcome trauma or fear related to dental procedures. With 25 years of experience in the dental field, I truly understand what these experiences entail and how overwhelming they can feel.

Life’s challenges don’t always play fair, but you have the choice to face them and heal. Acknowledging your feelings and taking steps toward growth is a powerful and courageous act. Remember, it’s not about being perfect—it’s about progress. You’re not alone!

Monique Verhoef

RTC, MTC
Equal Counselling Pet Loss and Grief, Trauma

I wonder if you are connecting with any of these struggles?

  • The loss of your pet stirring torrent of painful emotions?

  • Do you sense isolation or misunderstanding due to your dog's unique care or behavioural needs?

  • Are you grappling with intense heartache, longing, and a profound sense of loss?

  • Do you wrestle with overwhelming anxiety, panic, and a constant feeling of impending danger?

  • Is self-blame, sorrow, and the weight of emotional burden a part of your experience?

  • Do you feel unworthy, exposed, or longing to withdraw from others during social gatherings?

  • Are restlessness, tension, and persistent worries about the future familiar to you?

  • Do you find yourself wrestling with indecisiveness, or struggling to make sense of your situation?

  • Navigating adulthood or life changes? - How are you handling it?

  • Do you feel anxious by even hearing the word 'dentist'? 

Do you wish to...

  • Find a place you could talk all you want about the loss of your beloved pet?

  • Talk to someone who understand the heart wrenching pain of pet loss?

  • Find out more on how to find peace within yourself?

  • Try and make sense of the emotions you are experiencing?

  • Feel more empowered and tackle triggers or uncertainties?

  • See how it feels like to be authentic and feel connected?

  • Be confident and have a purpose?

  • Overcome fear of the dentist?

Equal Counselling
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LIVE YOUR FULL POTENTIAL

Live while you are alive!

Feeling down or dissociated? Is it from underlying trauma, or  because we live in a complicated society?

Pet Loss and Grief

PET LOSS AND GRIEF

Unspoken grief

The pain of loss and the grief that comes with it can be overwhelming. It is a very individual experience.

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BEREAVEMENT & TRANSITION

You are not alone

The loss of a loved one is one thing that we can never quantify. How do you put words to the pain

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EMOTIONAL TRAUMA

What about emotional wounds?

Have you ever been in a situation that evokes an intense, overwhelming and long lasting sense of fear, pain, anxiety and stress? 

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DENTAL TRAUMA

Dental Anxiety?

Have you ever felt an intense, overwhelming sense of fear, anxiety, or stress at the thought of your dentist?

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ADDING A MEMBER TO THE PACK

Giving another soul a chance

Whether you’ve just lost a beloved pet and you’re not sure about getting another one, or you want to start the journey to becoming a pet owner.

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ANIMAL ASSISTED THERAPY 

Yes, it’s different!

Did you ever wonder if your dog could be more? Seriously, how did you feel after you were friendly greeted by your or someone else’s dog?

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Believe you can and you’re halfway there
Theodore Roosevelt
Equal Counselling

Introducing Lauda-WuYi

Meet Lauda – a resilient spirit with a captivating story. Surviving a life-threatening car accident and crossing borders at just one year old, she emerged stronger, embodying an extraordinary character. Trained in therapy by her sister Chloë, Lauda, now in a wheelchair, forms deep connections with vulnerable individuals and dogs. Her passions include lounging, forest hikes, and savoring life's beauty. With a unique ability to enhance sessions, Lauda is ready to bring her special touch when called upon.

Equal Counselling Pet Loss and Grief
In Loving Memory

I am very sad to announce that my co-therapist Chloë is no longer with us. As a registered international therapy dog, she has comforted so many people and has touched many lives in general! She was and still is my inspiration for the work that I do now. I promised her to keep her spirit alive.

She may have died, but my love for her never will!

R.I.P my little monkey

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Are you ready to invest in your wellbeing, managing your emotions, and let your genius shine​? 
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